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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 22.06.2025 00:25

How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Would you let your partner cheat on you every now and again?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Making more friends is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

That's it for today.

Do you remember one day, you put a deep smile on someone's face and made them very happy?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hangs out with loser friends.

How do you get the most out of red light therapy?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Does not procrastinate.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What I need from you?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Ask yourself:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.